HOW AND WHY HYPNOSIS WORKS
Modern hypnosis has been used for
hundreds of years to build self-confidence, change
habits,
lose weight with weight loss programs, stop smoking, improve memory, end
behavior
problems
in children and eliminate anxiety, fear and phobias.
The
question is, WHAT IS HYPNOSIS? Hypnosis is a state of mind characterized
by relaxed
brain
waves and a state of hyper-suggestibility. Hypnosis and hypnotic
suggestions have
played
a major role in healing for thousands of years. According to the World
Health
Organization,
90% of the general population can be hypnotized. Hypnosis is a perfectly
normal
state that just about everyone has experienced. What we call
"highway hypnosis" is a
natural
hypnotic state. You drive somewhere and don't remember driving or even
remember
seeing
the usual landmarks. You are on automatic pilot. The natural hypnotic
state also exists
when
you become so involved in a book, TV show or some other activity that
everything else
is
blocked out. Someone can talk to you and you don't even see or hear
them. Whenever you
concentrate
that strongly, you automatically slip into the natural hypnotic state.
The
hypnotic state, by itself, is only useful for the relaxation it
produces. The real importance
of
hypnosis to the healing and emotional change process is that while you
are in the hypnotic
state,
your mind is open and receptive to suggestions. Positive and healing
suggestions are
able
to sink deeply into your mind much more quickly and strongly than when
you are in a
normal,
awake state of mind. I say positive suggestions because all research has
demonstrated
that while in the hypnotic state, you cannot be made to do anything
against
your
moral values.
All
of our habitual and behavior controlling thoughts reside in what is
called our subconscious
mind.
It's called that because it is deeper than our conscious mind. It's
below our level of
consciousness.
We are unaware of the thoughts and feelings that reside there. Did you
ever
forget
you had a dental appointment or some other appointment that you really
didn't want to
keep?
Your subconscious mind is where that thought or memory that you had to
go to the
dentist
at 2 PM went when you forgot you had the appointment. Once it was too
late to go,
your
conscious mind relaxed and the memory came back.
Imagine
that there is a trap door between your conscious mind and your
subconscious mind.
Normally,
the trap door is closed until your brain waves slow down to a relaxed,
alpha brain
wave
level. This happens when you are asleep. The door opens for short
periods of time and
ideas,
images and thoughts come out of your subconscious mind. We call what
comes out in
your
sleep, "dreams". When you are in a state of hypnosis, the door
also opens so helpful
suggestions
can be directed into your subconscious mind or forgotten memories can be
retrieved.
The
hypnotic induction that hypnotists use is simply a way to focus your
attention and
concentration
so you will go into that natural, normal hypnotic state. Once in the
state of
hypnosis,
the trap door opens and suggestions to help you can be given. The list
of ways
hypnosis
has been used to help children, adolescents and adults is practically
endless but
does
include: weight loss, stopping smoking, building self-confidence and
self-esteem,
improving
academic performance at every age level, improving test taking ability
from children
through
high school, college, medical and law school as well as the National
Teacher
Certification
Exam, pain management, eliminating anxiety, fear and phobias, stress
management,
insomnia and other sleep problems and helping to heal physical problems.
To
really work well, suggestions must be reinforced by repetition. Most of
the habits,
feelings
and emotions we want to change are deeply implanted in our subconscious
mind and
will
not just "go away" with one set of suggestions. Most of the
time, the hypnotic suggestions
need
to be repeated on a regular basis until you notice a change. This is one
reason that
most
specialists in hypnosis give clients cassette tapes of their sessions so
they can listen to
them
every day. It's also the reason why hypnosis tapes you buy can work so
well. You get to listen to them every day or often enough that the suggestions become
permanently a part of
you.
There is no way to predict how long it will take to see change. It will
depend partly on
your
motivation and commitment.
The
Three Keys to the successful use of hypnosis for self improvement and
personal growth
are
self motivation, repetition and believable suggestions.
1.
The motivation to change must come from within you. If you are trying to
change
because
someone else wants you to "lose weight" or "stop
smoking", the chances are
greatly
reduced that the hypnosis will work. For example, I've worked with many
people
for weight loss or to quit smoking who came to me because their
physician or
spouse
wanted them to change. These people do not respond as well to the
hypnosis
as
those who really want to change. Those who came because they wanted to
quit
smoking
or lose weight responded quickly and easily. Before you start to use
hypnosis
for
your self improvement, you should get it clear in your own mind why you
want to
change.
This clear intention to change will help the hypnotic suggestions to
take hold
and
manifest themselves in your everyday life.
2.
The third key to the successful use of hypnosis for personal change is
believable
suggestions.
If you are to accept a suggestion, your mind must first accept it as a
real
possibility.
Telling a chocoholic that chocolate will be disgusting to them and will
make
them
sick is too big a stretch for the imagination. If a suggestion like this
even took
hold,
it would only last a short time because it would be so unbelievable to a
real
chocolate
lover. In cases like this, one of the successful weight loss suggestions
I use
is
that the next time the individual eats chocolate, it will not taste
quite as good as the
time
before. This is far more acceptable and believable to most people. Then,
with
enough
repetition over a period of time, chocolate loses much of it's positive
taste and
control
over that person.
One
final note is that HYPNOSIS IS NOT DANGEROUS. There are almost no risks
when
used
by trained professionals. You cannot be made to do anything that is
against your moral
values.
An amateur or stage hypnotist might give you suggestions that might
embarrass you,
might
not work or that might make you feel uncomfortable or self-conscious at
the time. To
avoid
this, stick with professionally trained hypnosis specialists. The one
risk I know about
involves
falling asleep. If you are tired or if you become too relaxed, you may
move from the
state
of hypnosis to the normal sleep state. This is fine if you were going to
go to sleep right
after
the trance but if you have other plans after listening to a hypnosis
tape, you may want to
set
an alarm clock just in case you fall asleep. I've even had students fall
asleep because
they
became too relaxed. In relation to this, never listen to a hypnosis tape
while driving. It is
very
dangerous for you and everyone else on the road. Don't even listen to it
if you are a
passenger
as the relaxation suggestions could make the driver fall asleep.
Over
the years, self improvement and personal growth using hypnosis has
helped millions of
people
change their lives permanently because it is a safe and powerful tool
for changing
your
thoughts, feelings and habits.